But how nice is too nice, you ask. Are you the type of person who takes a stand easily or surrender easily? No doubt its a good thing to be a nice person but not so nice that you earn the reputation of being a pushover. They are your family after allb) Ask them to check with you before comingc) You dissapear from your house on weekends to teach them a lessonYou epitomise being a pushover. Others will treat you, they way you allow them to.Neither a pushover nor a bulldozer.

Source: Times of India August 23, 2016 11:26 UTC