As one of four boys, my husband learned to revere female anatomy, but not to understand it. My husband learned to take everything less personally, and to manage his feelings of rejection with a bit more grace. AdvertisementNagoski describes “sexual context” as all the things happening around and inside the people having the sexual experience. Co-creating a sexual context was fun, and helped remind us that mutual pleasure is the only goal. I’m grateful to have learned it was actually standing in the way of what my husband and I really want.

Source: Huffington Post March 08, 2023 02:21 UTC