But you’re slowly becoming one of those couples who don’t talk to one another in restaurants. And so you start wondering whether you could be doing more with your life, if only you weren’t married. Hand back responsibility to your spouse: ‘So what would you have done?’It’s important to recognise bad conversational routines and to challenge them. Because negative responses can lead to some very damaging habits — like sitting together silently in restaurants. Take a trip, learn a new skill together, or just try different restaurants.

Source: Daily Nation March 03, 2019 08:02 UTC