More reality, less fantasy, will help you understand who you are and what you really want, says Annalisa BarbieriI am a 34-year-old virgin. These feelings are purely romantic and I never fantasise about having sex with any of the women. I know I’m not normal in how I approach romance, but I don’t know exactly what is wrong with me. You are certainly not alone in not having sexual fantasies, nor is being a virgin in your 30s so unusual any more. The first and third are rooted in reality – the person exists when you first see them, and when you tell them.

Source: The Guardian July 19, 2019 13:52 UTC