I help clean, cook my own meals, do the laundry and wipe down things — these, she says, make no difference since they "should" be done. My daughters will also agree their mom is more fastidious than most. I continually feel pressure to not make an error — she feels as though I cause her more work. That you “help” clean is a self-own, revealing that you see the primary burden as hers. The “grievously,” though, and the blasting and the fury, are a grievous capitulation to the current climate of fear, anger and exhaustion.

Source: Washington Post February 07, 2021 04:52 UTC