We focus so much on a problem we don’t realise that our entire focus is the problem, not the solution. Dr David Lincoln, Master NLP practitioner told me, “the problem doesn’t exist without you, because if you take yourself out of the situation, the problem ceases… so that means you are the problem.” So first things first, stop blaming others. The cause of a problem in one situation is a solution in another. Living with a problem is not a solution. If something or someone matters to you, you will stop complaining, fight the fear and find a solution and not pity yourself, because there is a solution to every problem, you just have to find it, implement it and do away with it.

Source: Times of India June 12, 2016 01:35 UTC