I got the theory, since during that time I was in need of help myself. I needed to find people who needed my help too— yet from my perspective, the community where I lived didn’t have an issue with over-helping, over-loving anyone. I seek out people who need help— because they do make me feel better. I’m the mom who misinterpreted my baby’s needs the second time he cried for help. And later, I became the mom who couldn’t find help, couldn’t help her child who developed more difficulties.
Source: Huffington Post October 03, 2017 11:37 UTC