Two years ago, after fertility treatment, I became pregnant with twins, now 18 months old. We fight about cleaning, childcare time, what we do with our individual free time, and money. I don’t think she loves me any more and wonder: should we get divorced? Robinson also sensed a “struggle with identity; you’re an academic with a PhD – maybe you feel you’ve given up who you are, yet are not feeling rewarded in your experience of mothering”. Splitting up may feel like the only answer but, from what you’ve said, your relationship is still worth saving.

Source: The Guardian July 01, 2022 21:48 UTC