With a distant look, sounding very philosophical and wise, she said:“Marriage makes you a better person." A decade or so later, I am happy to philosophically say the same thing, maybe with a little variation; marriage makes you a better or bitter person. If you are a little more narcissistic than the average person, then marriage will make you a bitter person. Marriage makes you a better person but first you must go through the fiery furnace of refinement. And to stay open minded, have the courage to look in the mirror so that one does not turn bitter but a better human being.

Source: Daily Nation May 02, 2018 06:33 UTC