She had been alone for 13 years and liked that she could do whatever she wanted, whenever she wanted. And I want him to be feeling good about himself.” So Recurt and Johnston agreed to take things slowly, deliberately. In fact, this is the most sustainable love either has experienced, they say, reflecting as it does the lessons of two lives of failed romance. For instance, one of their strengths, both agree, is that while they are in love with one another they never fell in love. “It’s the opposite of falling.” Another self-professed strength is their shared belief that independence is a prerequisite for romance.

Source: thestar February 09, 2019 12:00 UTC