If you have been with a beloved spouse or partner for decades, you probably shared your personal history and life story with this individual — any underbellies included. Over recent months, I find myself wanting to divulge personal information previously never shared with a friend or family member. At minimum, the sharing probably engendered trust and more closeness — connectedness with the person receiving the information. I am told “the aftermath” of vulnerability may be unpleasant or surprising, but it’s frequently worth it. The creator of the game mentioned above, Michael Tennant, calls being vulnerable “a superpower.” It’s like “stepping over the edge.”Now that’s something worth sharing.

Source: New York Times October 02, 2022 13:42 UTC