I had a couple of relationships, but only one where I was completely in love with the man. Because he was so great in every way, I wilfully ignored the fact that I wasn’t physically attracted to him. It is likely that you are simply speaking out loud what he already knows or guessesHe is an adult who deserves the right to assess his own situation. He may initially be hurt and upset but it is likely that you are simply speaking out loud what he already knows or guesses. There may be more to your lack of desire than simply thinking that a very rare person can ignite it.

Source: The Irish Times May 01, 2019 04:52 UTC