Inevitably, sex became a bit routine so we agreed to change things. Now he is sulking and you are not having any sex at all. Unless two people are on the same page, 'spicing things up' is always going to be one person acting out a misjudged fantasy while the other one looks on bewildered. It definitely wasn’t porn moves, so what was it? Intimacy is what spices sex up and when it wanes sex rapidly loses its appeal.

Source: The Times May 01, 2023 07:44 UTC