He says we create our experience of reality based on our brain's best guess at what is going on. Down the rabbit hole I would go using my capacity to create reality with these thoughts as the building blocks. I was seeing myself, or more accurately, my thoughts -- my constructed reality. He trusted things would work out, and he did work hard at the things he thought were important. Not only did this damage goodwill between us, but it also didn't work in terms of helping me to feel better about myself.

Source: Huffington Post September 10, 2017 19:07 UTC