I try to be understanding, but after 18 months of her refusing to even talk about sex, I’m feeling downheartedMy wife and I haven’t had sex for 18 months since the traumatic birth of our second child, following which she required minor vaginal surgery. She is healed now, but doesn’t want to talk about sex. I try to be understanding and supportive, but it’s getting me down. You must try to help her enjoy the things she previously associated with sex, such as a romantic dinner, a sensual massage or cheeky moments in the car. If she senses your frustration at the wrong time, that pressure will make her feel that sex is just another chore.

Source: The Guardian October 16, 2017 06:56 UTC