She's become obsessed with AI chatbots. When I asked her about it later, she said she likes the chats because she "doesn't feel judged", unlike with humans. I feel ridiculous being jealous of AI, but I'm genuinely worried that she's replacing real human connection with this algorithm that just tells her what she wants to hear. Your girlfriend has found an emotional outlet that feels safer and more convenient than human connection. Some people aren't ready for the messiness and vulnerability that comes with long-term human connection, and that's not something you can fix for her.You’re not competing with the AI — but you should be focused on being the kind of partner who makes human connection feel worth the risk.

Source: The Star February 03, 2026 14:03 UTC