He is much older than me and has plenty of money, whereas I spend all my time doing my PhD and working freelance. We agreed that he would pay most of our costs and I would contribute whatever I can. I am now doing a PhD and working freelance in my remaining time. I almost never spend money on entertainment, clothes etc. He says the house should be spotless because he is paying more.

Source: The Guardian October 06, 2017 12:00 UTC