There have always been men who have sex with other men, but don’t consider themselves gay or even bisexual. I prefer sex with straight men because they don’t want romance; with gay men there’s always the possibility that they could get the wrong end of the stick and want something more. I’m in an open marriage with another man, so I’m not interested in falling in love. As one man told me: “Sex with another man is not being unfaithful to my wife – it’s just fulfilling my needs and desires.” I’ve even encountered straight men who have “male-on-male playdates” with their wives’ blessing. Other straight men are keen to try a threesome with a gay couple, as my husband and I have discovered using hook-up apps.

Source: The Guardian March 20, 2020 10:00 UTC