The thought of going through life having only been with one man, who now didn’t want sex, was infuriating. Four years after making my first appointment, we meet once or twice a year and have sex in an hours-long, languid sensual encounter. During one of our many conversations about the lack of sex, my husband said I should probably have an affair, but shouldn’t tell him about it. I wait to see how things develop and, in the meantime, look forward to appointments with my masseur. • Each week, a reader tells us about their sex life.

Source: The Guardian October 20, 2017 12:00 UTC