My spouse had joked many times about me finding a friend “just for sex,” and I’m seriously considering this. However, for four years my spouse has been suffering a lot of chronic pain throughout his body, so our sex life has become almost non-existent. Think it through very thoughtfully before you end up in a conversation that’s more than you both can handle. In most “open” or “special-arrangement” marriages — unlike in cases of secretive cheating — there are rules agreed upon by both spouses. These usually include, “no true love affairs,” “full disclosure” of the sexual incidents, “never in our home or bed,” etc.

Source: thestar September 29, 2016 09:56 UTC