I have been married to my husband for seven years and we have been together for 10. We have tried talking about it, but my husband has not given me a proper orgasm in that time, and I don’t know how to change that. But he hates giving me oral sex – and it’s the main way I can have an orgasm. I don’t know how to convey my concerns without emasculating him. What is your relationship with your own erotic self like?” If you orgasm by yourself (ie without oral sex), is this something you could translate into doing with your husband?

Source: The Guardian January 11, 2019 15:00 UTC