My boyfriend is adamant that this was nothing but a mistake, as no charges were brought – but I still have concerns. About a year ago my boyfriend’s brother’s computer was confiscated by the police, who told him that they suspected him of downloading child pornography. But am I being unreasonable to ask to see this email or to bring up the issue at all? I don’t want my boyfriend to think I’m accusing his brother, but I’m also conscious that child abuse is a crime that flourishes when people turn a blind eye or simply accept suspicious stories. • If you would like fellow readers to respond to a dilemma of yours, send us an outline of the situation of about 150 words.

Source: The Guardian September 22, 2017 12:00 UTC