We’ve only been together for six months and I’m very confusedI am 25 and I have been dating my 35-year-old boyfriend for six months. I recently discovered, when I was on his computer, a folder of six videos of me naked made, without my consent, on his iPhone. One of me getting changed in the morning, me in the shower and others of me lying in bed asleep. I don’t believe he intends to upload these videos, but I find it very worrying that he did not ask me and clearly indulges in voyeuristic behaviour. Email: private.lives@theguardian.com (please don’t send attachments).

Source: The Guardian September 08, 2017 10:52 UTC