Yet it’s the list Kate wrote 20 years later, in the weeks before her death from breast cancer, which has left the lasting impression. Such a fanfare is likely to make such wish lists – known as bucket lists – an increasingly common part of bereavement. He has been through hell, yet embodies the seize-the-day spirit Kate wanted for him and their sons. As to where she is now, Singe and Kate both believe and believed that when you are gone, you are gone. The things on the list are what Kate and I both wanted to do and how we both wanted to live our lives.

Source: The Guardian November 19, 2016 06:00 UTC