I have heard of one couple using the "busy busy itinerary technique" to wear down critical in-laws, but why do this to younger in-laws, who have not criticized their host? Do I need to let MIL know in writing that I'm not returning once the pandemic is over? Story continues below advertisementBut as a general rule, Miss Manners assures you that family and overnight guests do have some autonomy when it comes to taxing itineraries and unwanted late-night drinking. New Miss Manners columns are posted Monday through Saturday on washingtonpost.com/advice. You can send questions to Miss Manners at her website, missmanners.com.

Source: Washington Post April 16, 2021 03:56 UTC