Allen says it’s a “co-dependent attitude to pleasure” when people believe they have to rely on someone else to orgasm – especially when we can do it ourselves. In HuffPost UK Life’s podcast, Am I Making You Uncomfortable, sex educator Alix Fox said many people feel awkward about masturbation because people “just don’t talk about it”. “A lot of us worry about whether we should be doing it or shouldn’t be doing it,” she said. So we can really scrutinise our own behaviours – or lack thereof. “I wish I’d come to terms with [masturbation] much sooner, it would’ve saved me a lot of headaches,” she added.

Source: Huffington Post October 28, 2020 17:26 UTC