You should peg the desire for reconciliation to what you are not willing to lose in the relationship. This is simply not the right approach to heal your marriage from the affairs you both had. He now wants us to get married but as much as I love him, I can't fathom a sexless marriage. I am of the opinion that sex out of marriage has its own consequences. Ask yourself this: if something happened to either of you that will impede sexual relations, would your marriage end?

Source: Daily Nation March 04, 2019 09:33 UTC