If the world was a perfect place, we would all date people who are available, able and willing to commit to us. And now we have women enamored with unavailable men; men who are attached to other women, men who are not emotionally mature and men who just do not want to commit to something as involving as a relationship. So date whoever you want but don’t whine about the limitations that come with dating unavailable men. Don’t date a man who clearly can’t or won’t be tied down to you and then later complain that he hurt you, wasted your time or spent the money you threw at him trying to win him over. “But we have such strong chemistry,” a woman will say when confronted with the possibility that her relationship with an unavailable man may not be real.

Source: Daily Nation August 08, 2020 10:06 UTC