“While I agree that using the word ‘ultimatum’ is a bad idea, I don’t agree that setting limits or boundaries in a relationship is bad. Below, Smith and other couples therapists share how to diplomatically give one to your partner. No one wants to be on the receiving end of an ultimatum, so don’t actually use the word ultimatum when you talk to your partner. It will likely be a series of conversations.”Hinterhaus Productions via Getty Images When it comes to issuing an ultimatum, don’t make it a threat. Smith, the therapist who works mostly with men, said to assure your partner you’re giving them a choice, not telling them what to do.

Source: Huffington Post April 28, 2022 07:58 UTC