( Richard Lautens / Toronto Star )So I asked if he’d be interested to pursue a relationship (knowing that I was soon heading back to North America). But I quickly realized that he takes life slow and steady whereas I like to have a plan and short-term goals. His work doesn’t have regular 9-5 hours so he spends a lot of time hanging out and drinking with friends. Give him more time, but be clear (gently) that figuring out a plan to meet soon, must be a mutual effort from both of you. Ellie’s Tip of the Day Seeking a relationship despite distance is reasonable; rushing one too soon is unwise.

Source: thestar February 26, 2019 10:52 UTC