Q: I’m a gay man whose partner of 20 years died 18 months ago. That’s how people who’ve been devastated by a loss try to start emerging from the depths of grief. Whether or not you had some grief counselling at the time of loss, consider revisiting that process. His wife acted exactly the same way: she was controlling, narcissistic, nothing was good enough for her. IN YOUR INBOX: Sign up for the Star’s advice newsletter, get the latest on relationships, etiquette and more.

Source: thestar October 04, 2018 10:04 UTC