I try to satisfy my partner regularly, but often fantasise about other men being involved or my partner having sex with other men. I love my partner wholeheartedly and he is extremely attractive, amazingly attentive and understanding, but I find that, as soon as someone has become familiar, I lose sexual interest. It creates tension in our relationship, as he feels undesired by me, which, in most respects, is not true. Can you help me to accept my sexual desire for my partner and give him the love he truly deserves? You seem to be afraid that you may not always have choices when it comes to acting them out or not, but you do.

Source: The Guardian June 30, 2020 06:56 UTC