I am 42 years old and always seem to quickly lose my erection during sex. I can get an erection but, as soon as I penetrate her, it goes …Your mind may be playing tricks with you. Such a well-entrenched pattern of erectile failure can start as an occasional inability to maintain erection, but become a self-fulfilling prophecy, when your anxiety about it actually becomes a large part of the cause. But the best approach at this point is to immediately stop trying to maintain an erection and focus on the giving and receiving of pleasure without intercourse. It is vital for you to reframe sex as something relaxing and sensually pleasing rather than a goal or chore.

Source: The Guardian November 06, 2017 07:52 UTC