I want a relationship but I never give enough attention to the people I date. I have been single for a year and a half and feel I am stuck in a rut of chasing and ghosting people. • If you would like fellow readers to respond to a dilemma of yours, send us an outline of the situation of about 150 words. For advice from Pamela Stephenson Connolly on sexual matters, send us a brief description of your concerns. Email: private.lives@theguardian.com (please don’t send attachments).

Source: The Guardian December 15, 2017 12:25 UTC