The biggest threat here, as I see it, is that you end up feeling a kind of self-hatred for mannerisms that others find off-putting. There is absolutely no time limit on discussing your pain and anger over sexual misconduct. She often hides her shopping from her husband, who is also a co-worker. They argued, and she promised to limit her shopping. She asked me to keep it at my desk so her husband won’t see it on hers.

Source: New York Times February 07, 2019 23:37 UTC