I’m 26 years old, and have been having a really hard time in the past few months due to a breakup I brought upon myself. Sears asked:“Insecurity and anxiety,” explained Sears, “is a really useful alert to something you need to be aware of. Were there issues in the relationship that triggered these insecurities?”I know this relationship felt perfect in hindsight, but in reality it wasn’t giving you what you needed. In your next relationship, Sears recommended being more honest with your partner. That’s a useful question to ask yourself, maybe it feels familiar, which isn’t the same as being good for you.

Source: The Guardian December 17, 2021 18:34 UTC