My problem is that I have to fight the urge to cheat on him all the time. Should I bring up the shocking and destabilizing possibility of an open relationship in the context of my monogamous relationship, or do I simply police myself in silence? Wanton WomanCheryl Strayed: I think you’re “one Cosmo away from disaster,” if by disaster you mean acting upon your desires. So let the truth win out. You either bring about disaster by some manner of reckless behavior, or you tell the truth.

Source: New York Times July 31, 2018 16:00 UTC