Sign Up You agree to receive occasional updates and special offers for The New York Times's products and services. Should I send a card and gift, or see if they send a card to my daughter first? I, on the other hand, actually believe that your niece sent you the graduation announcement. (I will get lots of mail informing me that she is merely scrounging for a gift, but we don’t know that.) I suggest acting like an adult and mailing a sincere note of congratulations to your niece.

Source: New York Times June 22, 2017 21:11 UTC