I met a man two years ago and we talked for a year but it wasn’t clear what relationship we had. I will be grateful if you could show me the things I am not able to see for myself and what I have been doing wrong. Your first relationship – a long-term, serious, abusive relationship – was formative. And wrong factually, in that what you learned about what a loving relationship feels like, was incorrect. These lessons were wrong, so wrong.

Source: The Irish Times September 29, 2019 04:52 UTC