First, a personal statement to clear up things and reduce the risk of being misunderstood. Young gentlemen are not quite sure whether they are men or girls – or if they are men, what makes them men. WHY THINGS GO WRONGIt is more important that children are brought up properly; it’s more important than who ‘owns’ them. I think things really go wrong in midlife, when men grasp at tendrils of youth drifting away. Life at work is a war zone, home becomes another front: arctic, unfriendly, uncompassionate, the dominion of an uninviting, inconsiderate spouse.

Source: Daily Nation January 16, 2020 21:00 UTC