Most Chinese went to Auckland or Otago to become doctors, dentists and accountants, but I broke the norm. Fran Young says her mother Susan wasn't happy she was marrying into a marriage of "hardship". Divorce coach Fran Young had been married to her husband for 30 years; she noticed he changed towards her when he turned 50. Fran Young told her husband she wanted out of their marriage when she discovered he was living with another woman. Divorce coach Fran Young says she kept asking herself, "Shall I stay or shall I go?"

Source: New Zealand Herald January 09, 2026 17:58 UTC