Dear Carolyn: My husband and I have had a long and wonderful relationship with another couple that had marital problems, which eventually lead to a divorce. She says he has a “win” because now he will say we are better friends with him than with her. — Feeling UsedFeeling Used: It’s possible you’re being used, but I don’t think you’re a weapon against the ex. Getting angry at you, after all — and through you getting angry all over again at her ex, nice bonus — is a lot easier than getting angry at herself. You have two friends who divorced; you chose to stay friends with both; if you regretted that, then you’d need to apologize for it, but since you don’t, you don’t.

Source: Washington Post January 28, 2018 04:52 UTC