For example, he chooses their investments, and he also takes her car in when it needs to be serviced. Because when I hear, “I don’t know how I’d make it without James,” I think, “That’s pretty sad,” because autonomy is my drug of choice. But even one dissenting vote says it’s not true that your sister “comes off as smug.” Instead, she sounds smug to you. Re: James: When I hear, "I don't know how I'd make it without James," I hear her expressing her appreciation for what James does. Re: Va.: You might want to ask your sister if she is prepared to do things if something happens to James.

Source: Washington Post December 15, 2018 04:52 UTC