I have never said no to anyone and have always been gracious to anyone staying in our home, but I find I really don’t enjoy it. AdvertisementHow can I suggest that a hotel is a better choice when they ask to stay? — Not Saying NoNot Saying: Saying “no” firmly but kindly is an act of clarifying grace and, in your case, essential self-care. The first person you need to learn to say “no” to is the man you are sharing your home with. I did ask once for them to buy their drinks before being seated, but that idea didn’t fly.

Source: Washington Post December 10, 2023 02:21 UTC