Dear Amy: I think I just learned the meaning of the word "frenemy." "Shawna's" personality is aggressive and competitive, with a lightning-quick response to most things I say. I have boundary issues and in general frequently feel like a doormat, so I don't necessarily feel it is healthy for me to allow her to "win" all the time. Dear Amy: I have been working full time as a contract employee in academia. I agree with him, however, that you don’t get to manage one another’s feelings.

Source: Washington Post April 30, 2019 03:56 UTC