Ask the host their preferencesSome norms aren’t universal, but are common enough to warrant considering any time you stay with someone. If you’re not sure, follow the host’s lead by observing what they do, or ask them directly what they prefer. Also ask your host how they want you to handle your towels and bed linen when you leave. Help tidy up“If you’ve ever hosted, especially for a weekend, it’s so much work,” says Meier. “Make sure you’re independent and that you don’t ask people to buy tickets for you and things like that,” Meier says.

Source: New Zealand Herald December 23, 2025 09:34 UTC