We asked experts to tell us which kinds of people you’re better off leaving behind as we head into 2018. These means are effective in getting their needs met but are incredibly damaging to relationships,” therapist Amanda Stemen told HuffPost. “Unless meeting your needs directly benefits their narcissistic agenda, a user will only give you enough to ensure you won’t leave them as a future resource to tap,” psychologist Ryan Kelly told HuffPost. “They play the one-upmanship card by drawing on the times you didn’t do something, let them down or did something incorrectly, [and use them] as evidence of your shortcomings,” Meyers told HuffPost. They also won’t approach you from a place of care and concern, but rather blame and accusations,” Stemen told HuffPost.

Source: Huffington Post December 29, 2017 00:33 UTC