There are a number of other reasons why people choose to embark on an affair as well. ‘The spouse finds out, they’re upset, devastated… but suddenly they appreciate their partner and s3x is hot again. These people take up a lover with the hope that their partner will find out about it and would be ‘secretly relieved’ if they did. Another circumstance is that there’s some reason their partner can’t have s3x (like illness) or they don’t want to leave the marriage because of children or finances. It might be s3x you’re lacking or it might be affection, you’re feeling taken for granted.

Source: Nigerian Tribune January 20, 2018 01:50 UTC