I do have advice, although it may not be the type you were hoping for, because I’m not convinced your partner has a problem. The reality is that during penetrative sex, on average, most men last between three and eight minutes before ejaculating. Are you including this time in your account of how long he lasts, or problematising your sex life based on the amount of time penetrative sex lasts? During penetrative sex, tell him to let you know if he’s getting close to ejaculating, so that you can take a break. This doesn’t mean all penetration has to stop; get him to use his hands, tongue or a sex toy on you for a few minutes, until he feels ready to have penetrative sex again.

Source: The Irish Times April 01, 2018 06:00 UTC