But I have developed an intense attraction to a woman I work with. Nothing has happened, we haven’t been inappropriate and I don’t think she has any idea about my attraction to her – but I keep fantasising about her. I haven’t felt this way about a woman since meeting my wife and it’s making me feel very guilty. Think deeply about what this woman evokes in you, and figure out how you can bring that spark of electricity to your own relationship. And speaking of crossing lines, I also need to point out that you have to be very careful that you’re not being unprofessional or inappropriate with the woman you’re crushing on.

Source: The Irish Times November 19, 2017 04:52 UTC